Things aren't always what they appear to be at first |
Readers with
long memories, or CVs which begin in another era, may remember that one of the
early pop stars, Tommy Steele, had a hit with “Fings ain’t what they used to
be”. He was heralding a period of unprecedented change. If he was writing it
today, he would almost certainly have re-phrased it “Fings ain’t what they seem to be”, heralding an era of
unprecedented confusion and uncertainty.
Collins Dictionaries declared the
word of the year for 2017 to be “Fake news”. Oxford Dictionaries said their
word of the year for 2016 was “Post truth”. We are bombarded with information
that may sound plausible and be repeated as fact in social and traditional
media, but which may not be true. People in positions of power have the advantage
of knowing more than we do, and can happily select and spin information to suit
their purposes. A former leader of Singapore, Lee Kuan Yew, once said, “We
decide what is right. Never mind what the people think.”1
Only
a few media organisations still employ fact checkers, such is the pressure on their
time and resources, although specialist research companies are beginning to
fill the gap. They can do what we cannot. So when opposing views are
proclaimed, we tend to believe what seems to us to be the most plausible –
which generally is what accords with our prior beliefs about the issues or the
claimants.
We don’t just need discernment in
matters of political and international policy, though, but also in our personal
lives. The default position for most of us is that what we say or think is
true, and everything else is “alternative fact”. We over-play information that
accords with our prior views or gut feelings and play down information that
challenges them, regarding them as irrelevant, ridiculing them as bias, or just
flatly denying them as false. This is the source of malicious gossip and false
but damaging allegations.
Perhaps
by discovering some principles for everyday decisions we may also become better
equipped to discern the truths of bigger issues.
Discernment is a gift
Discernment is
a spiritual gift. “To God belong wisdom and power; counsel and understanding
are his” (Job 12:13). Solomon specifically prayed for it so that he could
“distinguish between right and wrong” and govern wisely and justly (1 Kings
3:9-12). Surely that is a prayer anyone in any position of responsibility in
any sector of society should echo. It was certainly expected of leaders in
ancient times (see the admittedly flattering comment in 2 Samuel 14:17).
St
Paul calls “distinguishing between spirits” one of the gifts of the Holy Spirit
in 1 Corinthians 12:10. He implies that it is something anyone can seek and it
is not restricted to a few people who act as oracles or advisers. That is
emphasised in his teaching about prophetic utterances: “the others [listening]
should weigh carefully what is said” (1 Corinthians 14:29). In other words,
don’t accept high-sounding rhetoric as gospel; be cautious rather than
gullible.
When
two great “dreamers” of the Bible, Joseph in Egypt and Daniel in Babylon, were
each called upon to interpret other people’s dreams and thereby discern what
God was saying through them, they both issued a personal disclaimer. Neither
claimed anything for himself. Joseph, once the brash teenager who had so
infuriated his family with his rash dream-based boasts about how he would one
day lord it over them, denies any inherent skill: “I cannot do it. But God will
give Pharaoh the answer he [God] desires” Genesis 41:16; cf. 40:8).
Similarly
Daniel, faced with the even greater challenge of telling the suspicious King
Nebuchadnezzar both what the dream consisted of and its interpretation, confessed “No wise man, enchanter, magician
or diviner can explain to the king the mystery he has asked about, but there is
a God in heaven who reveals mysteries” (Daniel 2:21,27-28).
Although
“distinguishing between spirits” is sometimes narrowly interpreted by some
Christians today as telling the difference between demons and the Holy Spirit
(which on occasions it may be), It’s mostly about clarifying whether someone is
telling the truth (see 1 John 4:1). Jesus rebuked his opponents who knew how to
discern the weather from the appearance of the sky, but couldn’t discern the
truth about his mission and message (Matthew 16:1-3). Paul discerned that
Ananias and Sapphira were lying about their contribution to the church (Acts
5). He used the gift to deal with a fortune teller in Philippi who was telling
the truth but for wrong reasons (Acts 16:16-21). That is reminiscent of TS Eliot’s
famous line in Murder in the Cathedral, “that the last temptation is the
greatest treason, to do the right thing for the wrong reason”.
So
if we are to be discerning, the first thing we should do is defer to God.
Discernment comes from patience
The second is
to learn patience. Patience is a fruit of the Spirit in the New Testament
(Galatians 5:22, sometimes translated as “forbearance” or “long-suffering”).
Paul calls for it as a mark of true discipleship: “clothe yourselves with
compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience. … And over all these
virtues put on love, which binds them together in perfect unity” (Colossians
3:12-14).
Proverbs
says, “Whoever is patient has great understanding [that is discernment], but
one who is quick-tempered [that is, in a hurry] displays folly” (14:29). John
in the book of Revelation, describing the cycles of turmoil that characterise
every era of human history says, “This calls for patient endurance and
faithfulness on the part of God’s people” (13:10).
We
can’t expect to become discerning people if we’re always in a rush to decide or
pronounce on something before moving on to the next issue. That is hugely
challenging in a fast-paced society. Discernment often requires that we do not make rapid decisions, that we do not jump to conclusions, that we do not form quick opinions that don’t do
justice to the broader context. If God is faithful, his purposes won’t be
thwarted because we took time to listen carefully and get our actions and views
in tune with his.
Discernment is open-minded
The enemy of
discernment is the assumption that we already know the answer. We cannot be
truly discerning if we are merely looking for confirmation of a proposed action
or preferred viewpoint. A number of ancient biblical proverbs remind us that to
be discerning, we have to be prepared to be proved wrong. That does not come
easily to most of us. “To themselves, people are usually right,” declares a
character in Iain Banks’ novel The
Business2.
Not
to the authors of Proverbs. Motive is everything: “The mocker seeks wisdom and
finds none” (because s/he has a closed mind) “but knowledge comes easily to the
discerning” (because they are open to fresh information, 14:6). Discerning
people are open to correction: “A rebuke impresses a discerning person more
than a hundred lashes a fool” (17:10, cf.19:25; we may balk at the idea of
corporal punishment but the point is clear: some people are too
self-opinionated to be changed by anything).
There is an echo of this in Paul’s
teaching about prophets in the church in 1 Corinthians 14. As well as urging
listeners to weigh carefully the pronouncements, he also says that prophets
should speak in turn and defer to each other (vv.29-33). Michael Green
comments, “Presumably the longer the prophet goes on, the more likely he is to
be talking from his own ideas rather than from the Lord!”3
Discernment, which is closely
related to wisdom (they can be distinguished by thinking of wisdom as
understanding and discerning as deciding), comes only when it is sought
earnestly. Seeking assumes that the answer, the treasure, is still hidden. “The
discerning heart seeks knowledge, but
the mouth of a fool feeds on folly” (that is, accepts uncritically that which
feeds his prejudices, Proverbs 15:14); “The heart of the discerning acquires knowledge,
for the ears of the wise seek it out” (18:15).
Gerard Hughes describes how St
Ignatius Loyola and a group of friends discerned God’s purposes for them. They
each shared in turn reasons why they should
not take a certain action, with no discussion. They went away to pray. Then
they came together and once more in turn shared reasons why they should take the action, again with no
discussion, and went away to pray. The next time they met they found they were
in full agreement. They had weighed it up patiently, with open minds, and
discerned the way forward together.4
Discernment defers to Scripture
There has to be
some final arbiter for Christian faith and action. Jesus warned of false
prophets who appear very plausible (wolves in sheep’s clothing, Matthew
7:15-20). He suggests they are distinguished by the way they live, although
that itself can be misleading unless we are very discerning. Very nice people
in churches and community organisations have turned out to be fraudsters or
abusers, perhaps because warning signs were ignored as being “unthinkable”. The
devil wears Prada, not horns.
The second century Christian document
Didache stresses the need to check
the lifestyles of people claiming to speak from God, and particularly suggests
that if they ask for food or money, or outstay their welcome, they are to be
regarded as suspect. Another early document suggests that the man “who wishes
to have the first seat, and is bold and impudent and talkative and lives in the
midst of many luxuries and many other delusions, and takes rewards for his
prophecy” is also likely to be a false prophet.5 This is a strong indictment of some freelance
ministers who peddle their services in return for their keep and operate
largely outside the discipline and authority of a specific local church.
Deuteronomy 13:1-5 warns that people
who interpret dreams which come true – seemingly authenticating their gift –
can still lead people away from God by advocating actions which are contrary to
what God has previously revealed about his character and purposes. Jeremiah
(23:25ff) warns about prophets who get very excited about dreams which can be
delusional and says “Let the prophet who has a dream tell his dream, but let
the one who has my word speak it faithfully. For what has straw to do with
grain?”
God’s Word does not change, even if
our understanding and interpretation of it does. God will not lead us to do
something which contradicts the primary teaching of Jesus and the apostles.
Hence the need for all of us, not just church leaders, to “search the
Scriptures” (see John 5:39-40). On Paul’s visit to Berea the people “received
the message with great eagerness and
examined the Scriptures every day to see if what Paul said was true” – and
they only had the Old Testament to use (Acts 17:11).
Discernment is difficult
In all this, it
is important to recognise that discernment doesn’t come easily. It is
especially difficult in western countries for us to discern between wants and needs. The psychologist Oliver James
tells of a British woman married to a super-rich property developer. One day
she went to a Porsche dealer and bought a car on the spot even though she had
no driving licence. When her personal assistant asked why she’d done it she
said, “Because I can. I hate [my husband], I’m unhappy, and I have the money.”6
Extreme retail therapy, perhaps, but not completely beyond the experience of doing
something “because I can”, without regard to wider issues.
The
failure to distinguish between wants and needs forgets Paul’s words: “If we
have food and clothing, we will be content with that” (1 Timothy 6:8).
Otherwise our focus turns to ourselves, or to things, rather than to God’s
purposes. We get caught up in the ultimately unsatisfying pursuit of more and
better things for their own sake, instead of enjoying what we have and using it
for the benefit of others.
Similarly
we need to discern between what we could
do and what we should do. Life offers many choices. Most of us have
multiple gifts and abilities. C.H. Spurgeon, a Baptist preacher at the end of
the 19th century, once said: “Discernment is not knowing the difference between
right and wrong. It is knowing the difference between right and almost right.”
From the same era, the missionary Amy Carmichael who spent 50 years in India
wrote, “I am not sure that I would feel guidance lay in all doors shutting
behind. I have never yet moved on without several doors being wide open behind
and many hands pushing me through one or other of those doors.”7
Discernment is perhaps the most
important gift to pray for in the modern world. We need it personally in order
to have fulfilling lives. Our leaders need it in order to act effectively.
Think and talk
1. Pray:
Father, we’re in a hurry. Slow us down. There are so many voices shouting for
our attention; help us to listen carefully, to distinguish truth from half
truth, and especially to hear what you want to tell us. Grant us the courage to
be truly faithful to you and your word. To be patient. To be open-minded. And
to be discerning people in a world that’s lost its way. Amen.
2. Look up the Bible passages quoted in the text
above, and read and meditate on them in their contexts.3. Read and meditate on the Solomon story and make his prayer your own (1 Kings 3:6-15).
4. How will you and your friends or church go about discerning what is right or true when you hear new claims or assertions?
5. What criteria will you use to distinguish between what is a valid difference of opinion and what is true or false? And how will you react to differences of opinion or viewpoint in the future?
References
1. Quoted by Oliver James, Affluenza, Vermillion 2007, p. 241.2. Iain Banks, The Business, Little, Brown & Company 1999, p.237.
3. Michael Green, I believe in the Holy Spirit, Hodder and Stoughton 1979, p.189.
4. Gerard Hughes, God of Surprises, Darton, Longman & Todd 1985, pp.146-7.
5. The examples are from Michael Green, Op.cit. pp.190-191.
6. Oliver James, Op.cit., p.55.
7. Amy Carmichael, Candles in the dark, SPCK 1988, p.42. The origin of the Spurgeon quote is unknown.
© Derek
Williams November 2017.